This post was recently featured on Ryan Malone’s blog, “Inside Elder Care” and written by Catherine Reeson, a certified medical assistant. I’d like to share this valuable information with our readers:
“Providing in-home care to someone , especially a loved one can be a stressful and challenging experience. Preparing ahead and considering these tips can help to make the transition into In-Home care less stressful and easier on you and the individual requiring care”.
- Impact on Person Needing Care – The individual needing care will need some time to adjust to the new arrangement. They may have recently lost a loved one or they may have had an injury or major medical event that has prompted the change. Any of these changes can cause stress, anxiety or even depression so it is best to give that person some time to adjust.
- Impact on You – As you will be the one giving care, a significant amount of your time will be required. You will need to consider if this is something you are willing to do and how it will affect your job and family life.
- Impact on Your Family – It will be important for you to discuss your decision to provide in home care with your family. The decision will directly impact them and your way of life. Carefully consider everyone’s opinions and concerns prior to making a full commitment.
- Staying on Top of Appointments – Once you start providing in home care, you will need to stay on top of appointments that will need to be kept such as going to the doctor, physical therapy, etc.
- Questions to Ask the Doctor – The more care you provide, the more involved you will be with monitoring the daily activities of the individual. You will want to ask specific questions of the doctor if you notice any concerning behavior or changes to the health or mental state of the patient.
- Medicines – Along with providing in home care, you will need to keep track of any medications when they need to be administered and any dangerous side effects or interactions with other drugs or specific foods.
- Meals – Providing regular and nutritious meals will be a major part of your responsibilities and it will have a major impact on the health of the person requiring care.
- Exercise/Physical Therapy – Depending on the mobility of the patient, you may need to ensure that they participate in some type of physical activity to keep them mobile. This may also involve bringing them to the gym or to physical therapy appointments.
- Keeping Minds Active – If the patient is limited in activity or confined in any way, it may be helpful to make sure they keep their mind active in addition to their body. This can be done by providing them with reading materials or thought-provoking games or puzzles.
- Eliminating Dangers in the Home – Keeping pathways clear and removing clutter can help to prevent any accidents or injuries to the patient.
- Making Adjustments to the Home – Consider if your home may require adjustments such as ramps, railings, stair lifts or larger access points into and out of the home. You may also need to make changes to furniture and fixtures such as chairs, beds, or bathtubs.
- Additional Cost for Caring – The cost of providing care can be significant (especially while you continue to also work). Consider if you need to reduce work hours and determine addition of other costs such as additional food, transportation, and potential renovations to your home.
- Liability Insurance – While most people provide in-home care to a loved one, you may want to consider adjusting any liability insurance on your home. Any additions you make to your home may require additional coverage.
- Taking Care of Yourself – One thing that most caregivers neglect while they are providing care is themselves. Make sure you are eating right, getting enough sleep, and getting a break from time to time as cared giving can be a demanding task even if you are helping a family member or loved one.
- Knowing when to admit you need help – At some point providing in home care may become so overwhelming or even impossible that you may need to consider getting additional help or stopping in home care altogether. Having an idea of what your options are under these circumstances will help to ease the transition especially if something changes with your loved one unexpectedly.
Consider calling One-On-One Caregiver when you need extra help. We are a Nurse Registry and we accept Long Term Care Insurance. Whether or not you have LTC insurance we will work with you providing a complete assessment of your loved one’s needs. We will match your loved one’s needs with just the right caregiver to support your efforts when you need down time. We are conveniently located on Atlantic Avenue in Delray Beach, Florida. Just call our office at 561-865-5488 Monday – Friday from 9:00 am to 5:00 pm. You may also call us after-hours and will be happy to help provide assistance as your in-home needs increase.
If your elder parents are having repeated falls and you are apprehensive about what to do to help mom or dad stop falling, you might look into some of these reasons to look a little closer and hopefully find a solution:
- Body Changes: Changes in vision, lack of flexibility, less muscle strength, especially in our legs, and changes in sleep patterns. It is important to have an eye exam every year and wear glasses as prescribed. Exercise on a regular basis can increase muscle strength and flexibility and improve balance. Regular exercise will help you sleep better as well. You might want to check your parent’s glasses to see if they are broken due to a past fall. Might be time to have them repaired or replaced.
- Chronic Health: High blood pressure and heart problems can cause dizziness that can lead to falls. Remember to get up from a laying down position slowly if you have heart problems or hypertension. Many elders fall while trying to make a run for the restroom because of difficulty controlling bladder. Speak with your M.D. about what can be done for this condition. It may help reduce your risk of falling. Check to see if your parents have had recent lab work. Perhaps they have low or high blood sugar. Check on their eating habits. Often the elderly will only eat when hungry and seldom get hungry.
- Medications: Both prescription medications and over the counter meds can cause side effects such as dizziness or drowsiness. Speak with the nurse, physician, or pharmacist about your medication’s side effects. If the side effects continue, speak with your physician about changing the medication. Make sure to inform all of your doctors about what meds you are taking so that each one knows ALL of your medications. Take all of your medications, including over the counter ones with you each time you visit the doctor. This way they will be able to see exactly what you’re taking and how much. Speak with the doctor about prescribed medications your parents are not taking. Often more than one medication is prescribed and the elder parent might think, “I don’t really need to take both of the blood pressure medications”. Speak with the doctor if you’ve noticed certain medications are not being taken or if they are NOT taking medications on time. Maintaining that medications are given in a way to maintain healthy blood levels may be necessary. Tell the doctor if they are being taken sporadically. Today, there are automatic medication dispensers that will give your parent audible prompts to remind them it is time to take their medications. But if you feel it is time to have someone supervise medications in your elder parent’s home, please give us a call and I will personally go and assess the situation. Thank you.
If preparing to visit our seniors here in South Florida for Mother’s Day or Father’s Day, I’d like to remind family members to take extra notice of obvious physical or mental changes since your last visit. Is there evidence of excessive spending, unpaid bills, unkempt household or personal hygiene? Is there an unusual volume of mail and solicitations for charities that you are not familiar with? Are there new “best friends” that you have not met? Eventually, most of our elder parents will need a caregiver. Few family members plan to handle caregiving responsibilities until an emergency arises. If you have questions about long-term care planning for your loved one, consult with a professional who can help you do what is best. At One-On-One Caregiver I will assess and plan ahead for your family member’s needs. What’s best you will have my cell phone number – a very worthwhile service for faraway family members. We provide appropriate care with heart and soul. If interested, feel free to stop at our Delray Beach office or we can meet at your parent’s home. See us on the web at http://www.oneononecaregiver.com or call our office: 561-865-5488. Long Term Care Insurance Accepted.
If you’ve ever agonized over care decisions for a loved one, below are some practical tips that might help you get started. As this blog is new we plan to use our expertise in elder care to present more tips. Here are some beginning thoughts on preparations that may be needed right now :
- Organize Your Parent’s Personal Health Record
- It is never too late for End of Life Planning
- Managing Medications
- Finding Professionals who can help
- Advocating for the Older Adult
- Do you know how to Prevent falls in the home?
- Finding independence through technology
- Keeping the Older Adult in Their Home which is where they want to be
- Mobility Equipment and other Assistive Equipment
- To drive or Not to Drive?
- Family Communications and Responsibilities
- Encouraging the Older Adult’s Well-Being
- Dealing With Dementia
- When is Hospice needed?
- Choosing a Residential Facility if there is no other alternative
- Taking Care of the Caregiver
- Providing Personal Care to Your Loved One
Please feel free to add your comments below if there is another topic you’d like for us to feature in the near future. Thank you.
It’s time to start thinking about mother’s day and what family members can share with a parent at this time. For hospitals, nursing homes, and assisted living, nothing should ever be brought on to the unit without the unit manager’s approval and this includes everything! For example, small decorations, candy and nuts may pose a choking hazard. Some plants may be toxic. Another thing to remember, is the person receiving the gift subject to potential harmful issues related to the gift? Are there residents who may wander into another resident’s room and will those items pose a threat? All food items family members bring on to the unit must be in a tin can and labeled with the names of the food item and date. Try to abide by the facility rules for storing of food. Family members and visitors should take all food items to the nurse’s station for approval before bringing to a resident or leaving in a resident’s room. Why not try decorating a room with family photos, a religious book, or photos that remind the person of the past? Decorating a room also gives staff members glimpses as to the senior’s former life and how they lived, what they looked like, whom they loved. Why not organize your favorite non-profit or networking group to provide gifts for seniors? Clear it with the unit manager at the facility you wish to donate to, or call the Activities Director at the facility. He/she will be very happy to accept bingo prizes, puzzles, and with a small budget every gift would make the resident very happy as they are being passed. You might even consider donating the food from a nearby restaurant for the annual holiday party. There is no end to the amount of creativity and ideas that both you and the Activity Director can come up with for mother’s day gifts.
My name is Charlee Brown. I welcome you to our site and would like for you to know that as owner and CEO of One-On-One Caregiver services we treat everyone of our patients with compassionate caring and responsibility. As owner I am personally very involved when It comes to staffing, making sure that each patient is assessed as to their needs. Once assessed, we provide a caregiver to care for you or a family member who will be the best possible fit. This experience comes as a Registered Nurse with a specialty in Gerontology and Mental Health, and also because as a daughter to a 90 year old mother I also want to make sure that a caregiver meets my mother’s needs with compassionate caregiving as well. We are located in both Broward and Palm Beach Counties through the Treasure Coast. We are available 24 hours a day. Feel free to give us a call at 561-865-5488 from 9 to 5 and feel free to contact us after hours as well. Thank you for your comments below.